Friday, November 29, 2013

you say peecan, i say picahn piiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiie

1. purchase deep-dish pie crust. take home, & put in freezer while you complete steps 2 through 6.  2. place medium-sized bowl on counter. put small bowl on counter, too. and, while you're at, put egg beater on counter.  3. preheat oven to 325 degrees (farenheit).  4. take egg carton out of fridge (if you discover you have no eggs, return to grocery store), crack three eggs (one at at time unless you are a chef/magician), allowing only the whites to go into the medium bowl & placing the yolks into the small bowl, then attempt to remove miniscule shard of egg shell with fork, rubber spatula, & finally your finger, chasing it around and around the bowl drawing upon all reserves of zen attitude.  5. beat egg whites a bit, add yolks, and beat completely.  6. add one cup sugar, one tablespoon (T) melted butter (i added the 'melted' instructions just to, you know, make it mine), one cup corn syrup (8oz), one cup pecan pieces, one teaspoon (t) vanilla, & a dash of salt ('dash' being a vague term that is something akin to the more precise quantity of 'a smidgen').  7.  remove pie crust from freezer and pour pecan pie mix into it, place on center rack of oven, and bake for about an hour.  8. pie should closely resemble professional-grade* pecan pie featured above.  (*defined as pie baked from recipe passed down through multiple generations of pecan pie-makers, including one's mother-in-law.)



our boys and the original pie-maker (their grandmama), biding time at Cracker Barrel, which was the hostess of our Thanksgiving Feast this year.  it should be noted that said boys are descended through said grandmama from Captain John Woodlief, of Berkeley settlement in Virginia, the site of the first thanksgiving in 1619 (http://www.berkeleyplantation.com/).
(those new england pilgrims didn't get their act together until 1621.)


the best thing about Thanksgiving is family.

Mike and his mama

Monday, November 25, 2013

music, memories, & a cemetery


let me first say that i cannot take much credit for worthwhile music listened to in our house.  don't get me wrong - i like music.  sometimes i like it a lot and i turn the volume up way too loud.  i generally have my radio on or a CD playing in the car (recently, i've been switching between npr and 'lorde'), and i have some favorite groups.  (okay, if you really must know, they are 'green day' and 'social distortion.'  oh, and just about anything from the eighties - because, of course, that was the most awesome decade ever.)  but i frequently cannot remember the name of a song or what group sings it, and i often ignore words in favor of a catchy rhythm or melody. (i really don't care what they are saying.)  i don't know about musical influences, or historical references, or any number of important contextual clues to why a song is significant.

but, guess what?  i am married to someone who knows a lot of that stuff!  & it is pretty interesting...if only i could remember it for longer than two minutes.  in any case, because of him, we've caught some good music along the way.  we got to see some favorites last night, and it was awesome.  i stayed out really, really, really late on a school night - which, if you know me, is an extremely rare occurrence.  i'm always worried i might turn into a pumpkin.

The Dave Rawlings Machine
Cat's Cradle

John Paul Jones (i'm told he was in led zeppelin...)
Dave Rawlings (in cowboy hat)
Gillian Welch (http://www.gillianwelch.com/)
Willie Watson (old crow medicine show!!!)
Paul Kowert (the punch brothers)
Rayna Gellert (uncle earl awesomeness) 

meanwhile, about town...
 
there are very few stores remaining on the main street from my college days - but for all of your hipster needs, there's still Time After Time.

i still have the purple overalls that i hemmed with a stapler.


&, now, right next door is the scrumptious Mediterranean Deli  http://www.mediterraneandeli.com/. the kibbi was completely yummy!

also, there's a cemetery on campus.  and, guess what?  they give tours!  and there are some really.famous.people buried there.  sadly, we couldn't find parking and were ten minutes late and the three student tour guides we spied hunkered down with their iphones as we circled (again) to find a space had (i imagine) gleefully departed to warmer climes and were desaparecidos by the time we finally arrived.  so we toured ourselves.  or, at least, we walked around in the bitter cold with the westerly wind under the blue november carolina sky.  we recognized a couple names.  read about long-ago professors and long-ago students, who lived old or died young.  in parts of the cemetery, there are just misshapen rocks instead of gravestones.  in some parts, nothing at all.


Saturday, November 23, 2013

November in the Garden

my gardening style is benign neglect.

but i really can't take all the credit...the bones of the garden are fantastic, lending itself to this laissez-faire attitude of mine.  through the seasons, my only complaint is that the gardener before me planted pink camellias, pink azaleas, pink dogwoods, pink flowering almond, pink! pink! pink!

fortunately, this time of the year, that color is largely absent.




in its place are the greens, golds, reds, and (sigh) pinks of autumn.  today, i have been raking up the oak leaves and uncovering the moss that grows in our north-facing front yard and sheltered west-facing path.  in the spring, lily of the valley grows there, beside the moss.


when we bought this house, we became only its second family.  & shortly after we moved in, something necessitated that the former owners (at the time, in their eighties) come by.



as they left, the woman, who is the gardener responsible for the perfusion of pink, remarked on the nandina growing at the base of one of the oak trees & how much she always loved it, with its red, red berries, in the winter.


so, i will leave it be, even though it really seems out of place,
tucked, as it is, between the toes of the oak,
& remember that someone else loved this garden, too.

the high tomorrow is barely above freezing, so this might be the last day for the sasanqua camellia & its paper-thin flowers.  earlier in the autumn, the sweet olive next to it competes for the bees - but today, this sasanqua pollen appears, to my unbee-like eyes, the last left in the garden.

then there is the arum italicum, a name i can never remember....otherwise known as "lords & ladies."  the leaves which show in the autumn and winter are the 'lady' part of the name.  in the summer, it produces a stalk of large green berries which ripen to psychedelic orange and are gobbled whole by the birds (honestly, it's reminiscent of a snake swallowing a mouse.  i would say 'rat,' but that is disgusting.)  the berries are actually considered poisonous and, if you were to decide to partake, seeing how excited the birds are to do so, your lips and tongue would be burned by the little calcium oxalate crystals contained in this deadly snack.


this was the summer of no.figs.not.even.one.how.very.sad.

the spring was wet.
the summer was cool.
we've allowed the neighboring (and sun-blocking) camellia
     to grow-and-grow-and-grow.
it must be twelve feet tall by now.

so the figs were hard little dark green globes
that never became plump, maroon, sugary treats.

at least i have the memory of past summers (and, hopefully, future ones) -
of plucking a warm fat fig from the tree
and splitting it open with my thumbs
and devouring it on.the.spot.





to me, our crepe myrtle resembles a giraffe;
the bark molting and revealing undulating, entwined necks.






mostly, though, our garden is transitioning into winter hibernation.  which isn't a bad idea.

Sunday, November 17, 2013

grumpy graciousness

there really is no such thing.  you can only be one of these at a time, not both together.  it is scientific fact that grump negates grace.  that a "sure" followed by a grimace & a grumble (however disguised or delayed) does not graciousness make.  grump!grump!grump!  satisfying only in the short-term.  somewhat like eating the entire bag of sour gummy worms, which just ends up causing inflamed taste buds.  not that i would know.

so, i will try graciousness....and restraint.
(and, eventually, a post that does not rely on alliteration.)


Saturday, November 16, 2013

piedmont potters

carved pottery from the studio of the amazing Leanne Pizio
(http://artandlife2.blogspot.com/)
plus....

these two creature mugs from John Carvino Malpass,
(http://clayflute.com/Home.html)
self-described mud-slinging pyro-philiac!

bold new world

well, new to me, at least.  i have contemplated a blog on&off, mainly coinciding with some alarming new facebook privacy update.  but i think i'm finally ready to plunge.  this will be a work-in-progress, as i'm not sure how this blog-thing actually works.  & if i'll like it.  i hope it's not like my confused venturings into twitterville.  i have created a twitter account at least three times now...and three times is apparently not the charm for me & twitter.  i just don't get it.  i've got enough random thought-wanderings that adding someone else's tweets to the mix just gives me a headache.  i did think my most recent twitter name was clever, though.  fleurdemeg.  which brings me to the word pomegranate.  ah-ha!  do you see it?  pomegranate seeds are like a zingy, juicey explosion in your mouth, aren't they?  perhaps, every now & then, one of my posts will do the same thing...in a metaphorical sort of way.  but let's keep our expectations pretty low right now.